We're at the crossroads between realism and fun, here. Realistically, one of the following would be true:
1) It's impossible to turn a ship into a near-c impactor for some scientific or technological reason.
2) it's possible, but there are effective and widely deployed countermeasures.
3) It's happened many times over the course of the three Imperia.
Since we don't hear about (3) in canon, that narrows it down to (1) or (2), unless you accept Kurt's suggestion that every single incident has been effectively covered up. ("Mora? No sir, no such planet. No, sir, I don't care if you were born there, not in our data bank. Do you maybe mean X-338, the interdicted molten slag heap which I must emphasize has always been just like that?")
If you emphasize fun over "realism" (e.g., continuity with canon and agreement in broad terms with what we know about people and technology), then sure, have the players invent the trick and have the target planet be utterly surprised by it.
Of course, on the third hand, the US was "surprised" by the use of jetliners as cruise missiles on 9/11, despite two preceding well-known fictional portrayals of the specific building-as-target idea that I can think of offhand,.not to mention the use of kamikaze aircraft against our fleet in WWII.